Collaborative Divorce – A Somewhat Contrarian View
Eastern North Carolina Divorce ’s Collaborative Divorce? Don’t Hold Your Breath . provides a counterpoise (sort of) to my Should Indiana Have a Statute Promoting Collaborative Divorce? and Explaining Collaborative Divorce . Traditional divorce already has many of the supposed benefits of collaborative divorce. Attorneys do talk to each other, do realize that it is better for their clients (and their children) to work things out, and really do try to reach agreements for their clients. The only thing that collaborative divorce adds is that the attorneys will withdraw if no agreement is reached. And when that happens, clients have to go through the additional expense of hiring new lawyers and paying them for work that their…

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